German Queeriosity

Bring consent out of the bedroom. I think part of the reason we have trouble drawing the line “it’s not okay to force someone into sexual activity” is that in many ways, forcing people to do things is part of our culture in general. Cut that shit out of your life. If someone doesn’t want to go to a party, try a new food, get up and dance, make small talk at the lunchtable—that’s their right. Stop the “aww c’mon” and “just this once” and the games where you playfully force someone to play along. Accept that no means no—all the time.

inkingpaperwithyou:

"How do you get out of the labyrinth of suffering?… Nothing’s wrong. But there’s always suffering…"

inkingpaperwithyou:

"How do you get out of the labyrinth of suffering?… Nothing’s wrong. But there’s always suffering…"

Anonym asked: Hi, I really like your blog. You have the ability to show the beautiful things, the things that lie within us - if you know what I mean. But as of recently your blog seems to be so sad or something. Guess I´m right. What happend, what fills your heart up with pain? Regards, Sarah

Hello Sarah,

thank you very much for your kind words.

Sure,I do know what you mean. It’s about the little things that lie within us that everybody knows and, more important, that everybody feels. But barely one is able to express them.

You got it more or less right. My overall mood is sadder these days and that’s what you can see here. I’m having a hard time concerning relationships and my thoughts/feelings. Don’t worry, everything is fine.

What’s your tumblr?

If you want to talk a bit more please come out, dear Anon. I don’t want to have everything on here. I hope you understand.

Best wishes (and I hope you talk to me soon),

Jasmin